05 Dec Navigating the Challenges of an Older Rehomed Parrot
When it comes to parrots, every bird has a story, and Bongo’s is one I’ve cherished for many years. At 35 years old, Bongo, an African grey parrot, has seen a lifetime of love and challenges. He spent most of his life with a single family – an older couple who adored him. After the passing of his primary caregiver, Bongo found himself in a situation familiar to many older parrots: navigating change and uncertainty.
When Bongo’s owner, Carol, reached out to me, she hoped to strengthen her bond with him and asked for help with training. Over the years, Bongo has come to stay with me for periods of time, and recently, he’s joined me permanently. His story is a testament to the complexity of adopting older parrots and the patience, care, and understanding it takes to help them thrive.
Adapting to Change: Slow and Steady Wins the Race
One of the first lessons Bongo reminds me of is how critical it is to go slow when introducing change, especially with older parrots. Like many birds, Bongo has his comfort zones – his cage, familiar spaces, and routines. Even small adjustments can feel overwhelming to him, so I approach every transition incrementally.
For example, when transitioning Bongo to a slightly larger cage, we placed his old cage side-by-side with the new one, making it inviting by filling the new cage with all his favorite things. This allowed him to explore at his own pace without feeling forced. Watching him confidently step into his new space was a small but meaningful victory.
Enrichment and Expanding Skills
Older parrots, especially those from homes with limited stimulation, often need to set up shaping with reinforcement to explore new activities. With Bongo, this has included introducing foraging opportunities and providing enriching items like acacia branches and egg cartons. These small additions keep his mind active and curious.
A significant goal is helping Bongo feel comfortable away from his cage. I’m working to encourage him to explore a play gym – a space that allows him to expand his territory while feeling safe. This process is all about baby steps. By placing familiar toys and treats on the gym, I’m giving him positive associations with this new area.
Diet: Meeting Him Where He’s At
Bongo’s diet has been another area of focus. He came to me eating primarily pellets, but I’ve been gradually reintroducing fresh fruits and vegetables. This hasn’t always been easy; his previous owner, Carol, faced health challenges that limited her ability to prepare fresh foods for him, so they weren’t part of his routine. Fortunately, Bongo has taken to some favorites, like pomegranate, and I’m excited to expand his diet for better nutrition.
The Hero’s Complex: Managing Expectations
One of the biggest challenges for anyone adopting or working with older parrots is resisting the urge to “fix” everything immediately. It’s tempting to want to shower them with toys, larger spaces, and new experiences. But for birds like Bongo, who may not have the skills or confidence to handle sudden changes, this approach can backfire.
Instead, it’s about meeting the bird where they are. Bongo’s safety and comfort come first, and every change I make is carefully tailored to his needs and pace. This approach helps build trust, reduces stress, and creates a solid foundation for long-term growth.
What I’ve Learned from Bongo
Bongo has taught me that working with older parrots is as much about respecting their history as it is about planning their future. His journey is a reminder that the key to success is patience, observation, and adaptability. Whether it’s teaching him to explore new spaces, enriching his environment, or simply enjoying his company, every step forward is a win.
Adopting or caring for an older parrot is a deeply rewarding experience. It’s not about perfection or meeting a checklist of expectations. It’s about giving these incredible birds the space, time, and love they need to thrive in their own way.
Bongo’s story is just beginning, and I’m grateful to be part of it. Whether you’re considering adopting an older parrot or working with one already in your care, remember: the journey is as important as the destination.