The Secrets to a Long-Lasting Parrot Relationship: Lessons from Henry & Juice

The Secrets to a Long-Lasting Parrot Relationship: Lessons from Henry & Juice

Having a parrot is not just a pet ownership experience – it’s a lifelong journey. I’ve had Sulphur-crested Cockatoo Henry and Little Corella Juice by my side for over 20 years, and while I may not have all the secrets to a perfect parrot relationship, they’ve taught me some invaluable lessons about what it takes to create a strong, lasting bond.

Relationships with parrots, like any meaningful connection, evolve over time.

Here are a few things I’ve learned along the way:

1. Expectations Shift Over Time

When you bring a parrot into your life, you’re committing to a relationship that can last decades. Your life, priorities, and circumstances will inevitably change. One year you might be able to give them endless attention, while the next, life might get more complicated. What’s important is to ride the ups and downs together. The bond with your parrot will evolve, and you both need to be adaptable.

Just like in any long-term relationship, understanding that change is inevitable can help you navigate through the tough times and celebrate the good ones. Your bird will have shifting needs and desires as they mature, and that’s okay – aging and shifting dynamics are part of the experience.

2. Creating the Right Environment

Think about this: you wouldn’t get a horse and just keep it in a 12×12 stall. A horse needs room to roam, and your parrot does too, even if they’re clipped. Providing space is essential to their physical and mental well-being.

It’s not just about one large cage – it’s about giving them access to different environments. Multiple safe places in your home and an outdoor aviary (if possible) allow your parrot to explore, stay active, and engage with their surroundings.

And just like we need our own space sometimes, so do parrots. You and your bird won’t always be in sync – sometimes you’ll need time to do your own thing. Establish spaces where your bird can safely be a bird and you can be human. Giving yourselves some “me-time” can actually strengthen your bond in the long run.

3. Exercise Is Non-Negotiable

Parrots need exercise. Period. Whether your bird flies freely or is clipped, they need movement to maintain their physical and mental health. Outdoor free flight might be the ultimate goal for some, but it’s not the only way to give your parrot the exercise they need. Engaging in indoor flight, play, and physical enrichment activities can also help keep your bird fit and happy.

Think about the exercise needs early on – just like you wouldn’t adopt a high-energy dog without planning for daily walks, parrots need structured time to move, climb, and fly. A parrot that gets adequate exercise is less likely to develop behavioral problems, and more likely to thrive in their environment.


Conclusion

Parrot ownership is a serious commitment filled with challenges and rewards. Henry and Juice have shown me that the key to a successful relationship with a parrot is adaptability, providing a stimulating environment, and always making room for exercise. You’ll learn and grow together, but remember – just like in any relationship, it’s the journey that matters.

Have any stories about your own parrot relationships? We’d love to hear your stories! DM us on Instagram or Facebook and share your own parrot stories! And if you’re curious to see the bond we have with our birds, come out and join one of our experiences at the ranch! We’d love to show you in person.